Marriage Matching

💞Understanding Marriage Matching:💝 “A great marriage is not when the perfect couple comes together , it is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences “. Dave Meurer Marriage matching is a complex tedious process. Various matching techniques are employed to create a happy matrimony This article attempts to throw light on the most essential features of astrological Matching Techniques 💑Horoscope Prospects: The first step before matching a horoscope is to check the horoscope for good longevity. The Kalatra bhava with Ven Mars must be strong. Putra bhava and Jup must be well placed. Asc is analysed to understand the character. Moons position is studied to understand the temperament and psychology. The Yoga bhavas are studied are studied to know the prosperity and general welfare. Good dasas must operate from the time of marriage. When the horoscope prospects look satisfactory the matching steps are next analysed 💟Guna Milan: Gunamilan has been computed with socio religious considerations and proportional and different aspects in a married life. Different authors have given different weightage to the gunas . Guna milan is one aspect of the many steps to matching 1.Varna: Spiritual development 2.Vashya: Amenability 3.Tara: Mutual beneficence 4.Yoni: Affinity 5.Graha Maitri: Psychological disposition 6.Gana: Mutual love 7.Bhakuta: Overall welfare 8.Nadi: Physiological harmony 9.Mahendra: Comforts from progeny 10.Vedha: Avoid conflicts 11.Rajju: Longevity of married life 12.Stree Deergha: Marital longevity 13.Linga: Physical compatibility 14.Gotra: Physiological compatibility 15.Bhoota: Elemental harmony 16.Pakshi: Harmony 17.Yogini: Augurs Auspiciousness 18.Chandra Yoga: Luck 19.Aaya: Stability 20.Varga: Mutual friendship 21.Yujja: Mutual Love 💞Dosha/Paapasaamyam: Analysing Quantum of Dosha or marital affliction Malefics occupying 1st 2nd 3rd 4th 7th 8th 12th from Asc Moon Ven cause dosha or affliction to the hosroscope Dosha Saamyam means neutralising or balancing the negativity. Affliction in one chart must be balanced with the same affliction to neutralise the quantum of negativity Natural Malefics Mars Rahu Ketu Sun Sat in 1 2 4 7 8 12 houses causes kalatra dosha Dosha Quantum of houses: 1.Malefics in 8th produce 6 unit of dosha 2.Malefics in 7th produce 5 units of dosha 3.Malefics in 2nd and 4th produce 4 units of dosha 4.Malefics in Asc produce 3 units of dosha 5.Malefics in 12th produce 1 unit of dosha Dosha quantum of Malefics: 1.Rahu/Ketu produces 1 unit of dosha 2.Sun produces 2 units of dosha 3.Saturn produces 3 units of dosha 4.Mars produces 4 units of dosha Total Quantum of Dosha House Dosha multiplied by Malefic planet Dosha: Ex: Mars in 7th Unit of Mars :4 units Unit of 7th: 5 units Therefore 4 * 5 = 20 units dosha II) Planetary strength The dosha produced by the planet depends upon its strength as follows. Planet in exaltation no dosha Planet in Moola trikona 25% 1/4th unit Planet in own house 50% ½ unit Planet in friend’s house 75% 3/4th unit Planet in Debilitation 125% 1-1/4th unit Application: The dosha should be calculated from Lagna, Moon and Venus. Rule 1. When calculating from Moon the dosha value is only 50% of Lagna Value Rule 2. When calculating from Venus dosha value is only 25% Lagna Value Rule 3. For calculating total dosha add dosha calculated from Lagna, Moon and Venus. Rule 4: The dosha in the two charts should be equal or it can be more in boy’s chart. The dosha of the girl should not be more than that of the boy. Dosha in the boy’s chart can be double than the dosha in the girl’s chart. 🍁Kuja Dosha Antidotes: 1.Mars is set retrograde debilitated in 1 4 7 8 12 Mars dosha is not effective (Muhurtha Deepak) 2.The dosha is nullified if the 2nd has Moon Ven, or Jup aspects Mars, Rahu conjoins Mars 3.There is no Mars dosha if Aries coinciding 1st house. Scorpio coinciding 4th hoiuse , Cancer coinciding 8th house and Sag coinciding 12th house (Muhurtha Deepak) 4.Others opine Mars in the 2nd house in Gemini or Virgo Mars in the 4th house in Aries or Sco Mars in the 7th house in Cancer or Capricorn Mars in the 8th house in Sag Pisces Mars in the 12th house in Tau Lib Produces no Dosha 5.Strong Jup in the Asc or the 7th counteract the dosha . Some opine that if Jup or the Moon joins Mars then the dosha does not exist 6.If a spouse is having Sat in 1st 4th 7th 8th 12th then Mangal dosha does not exist (Muhurtha Sangraha darpan and Muhurtha Deepak) 7.If the Moon and Ven are in the 2nd house, or Mars is aspected by Jup , or Rahu is in a Qaadrant Mangal Dosha does not prevail 8.Mars in Leo or Aqu does not cause dosha 9.Mars does not cause dosha for Leo or Can Asc because he is a yogakaraka for these Asc. If Mars becomes debilitated combust enemy’s house Mars will cause dosha 💗Dasa Sandhi Combatibility: Dasa sandhi means two horoscopes of the bride and groom must not have they dasas ending within a year. They should be at least one-year difference. Rahu/Jupiter Dasasandhi for men, Venus/Sun. Dasasandhi for women. Mars/Rahu. Dasasandhi for both women and men are hostile. Generally the dasasandhi of two malefics can be dangerous Dasasandhi of dusthanas and badaka lord can be very challenging If the Dasa Sandhi occurs it could prove dangerous to the partners 💐Dasa and Matching: 1.The couples must run good dasas from the time of marriage 2.Dasa lords must not be inimical dasas to both couples 3.Dasa lords must not be in 6 8 12 from each other 4, Dasa lords must not be in each other badahaka , tithi soonya or malefic occupying Rasis 🌺Tithi and Matching: (Please see Full article in VV) TIthi depicst the Jala Tatwa and Ven Moon rule over Tithi. A snapshot matching can be just made by matching both the couples Tithis Tithi Plantery Rulers: Pratipad Navami: Sun Dvitya and Dasami: Moon Tritya and Ekadasi: Mars Chaturthi and Dwadasi: Mer Panchami and Trayodashi : Jup Shasti and Charuturdashi: Ven Sapatami and Pornima:Sat Amavasya:Rahu Principles: 1. Couples Tithi lords must be friendly Planets 2.Couples Tithi lord must be placed in mutual Trines or Quadrants and not in mutual Dusthanas 3. Tithi lords must be placed in harmonious Tatwa (Fiery Earthy Airy Watery) 🌹Jaimini and Matching: The Jaimini Athma Karaka, Darakaraka , Darapada and Upapada can be used effectively in compatibility a)Darakaraka: The Darakaraka of the spouse and the Atmakarka must be friends and must not be in mutual dusthanas. b) The Athmakarkas of both couples should be friendly planets and must be placed mutually in quadrants or Trines Both AK and DK must have auspicious synastry c)Darapada A7: The A7 must be well placed from Asc and Aruda lagna . A7 must not be in dusthana or conjoining malefics in synastry d)Upapadalagna: Upapada must be beneficially disposed. Malefics in 2 4 7 8 12 from UL is unwelcome. Upapada lagna must not join malefics in synastry 💘Synastry :(See detailed article on synastry on my old post-dated 2nd January 2019): Synastry is another matching technique, though a western concept its very useful in matching horoscopes Both the horoscopes are superimposed or overlapped and the effects are deduced Synastry can be of three types 1.House synastry 2.Planet Synastry 3. Planet to house Synastry House Synastry: Both the couples connecting houses are analysed. The Asc and 7th house must overlap a quadrant or trine. The quadrants and trines most overlap the spouse’s quadrant or trine, the overlapping must not be over 6 8 12 houses Planet Synastry: Moon Ven Mars Jup are the most important planets to be considered. These planets must not be over a natural malefic Rahu Ketu Mars Sat Both spouses Moon must be in mutual trine quadrant and overlapping benefics Ven makes a beneficial connection with Mars Moon or Asc lord creates strong Mutual Love Jup making connection with Moon Asc Asc lord ,7th lord creates a strong bond 🌻Muhurtha and Marriage: A good strong Muhurtha strengthens the marital bond, longevity and happiness. It’s a must to have marriage conducted with panchanga shudhi , Auspicious Asc with 7th 8th free of affliction .Moon Ven Jup must be strong in transit and Muhurtha. 🌼Summary: 1.The horoscope is first analysed for good longevity and general prospects 2.2nd 7th 8th the most important houses of marriage must auspiciously positioned 3.Asc 2nd 4th 7th 8th 12th if occupied by Malefics it must be balanced in dosha Saamyam 4.7th house and Ven/Mars must be strong for marital felicity 5.5th house and Jup must strong for good progeny 6.Moon must be Auspicious and mutually placed well 7.Moon Ven must be in auspicious synastry 8.Dasa sandhi must not occur 9.Guna Milan must be considered 10. Jaimini marital principles to be seen 11.Tithi compatibility is to checked 12. The overall Horoscope is analysed and no bhava must be strongly afflicted (1 2 4 5 7 8 12) 13.The couples must have auspicious dasas running from the time of Marriage 14.The marriage must be solemnised in an auspicious Muhurtha 💞Conclusion: Marriage matching is complex. Its highly impossible to have matching with all compatibilities. The most important aspects must be considered. Marriage matching is an irony. Love or arranged marriage the couple marries the exact opposite polarity person. Both are missing halves of each other coming together to complete each other. Asc and 7th house are 180 degrees apart naturally all couples will be 180 deg apart. One couples weakness will be matched with other having it in excess. An extrovert marries an introvert, a highly talkative person marries a silent person, an intellectual marries a street-smart person, a spendthrift marries a frugal person etc etc. Why matching is necessary when we are only going to marry our exact opposite frequency. Choice is a freewill option given to us. Though we are gravitating to our fate our choices in life change the course of destiny. Few Marriage quotes: “A perfect marriage is just two imperfect people who refuse to give up on each other” -----Unknown “A good marriage is the union of two good forgivers” ---Ruth Bell Graham “A good Marriage is contest of Generosity “…Dian

Synastry (A novel Matching Technique)

Synastry (A novel Matching Technique) A simple introduction in using the western matching technique Synastry to Vedic Astrology. These principles I have seen it work very effectively in judging the couple’s chemistry accurately. The horoscope Potential and promise is the first assessment. The Paapa Saamyam and Doshaya saamyam is the 2nd assessment. The Guna milan assessment is the 3rd assessment. The Synastry tool is used as an adjunct in understanding deeply the chemistry and compatibility between the couples Synastry is the art of Matching or relationship Astrology. Both the couple’s chart are superimposed or overlapped and the effects are deduced. It is a fascinating and illuminating study of how individuals interact with one another. In synastry, the interaction between both birth charts is examined, offering an accurate gauge of compatibility. Through synastry, the complex dynamics of love and human relationships can be better understood. Because nothing so profoundly affects our lives as our contact with others. Synastry can be of three types 1.House Synastry 2.Planet Synastry 3.Planet to House Synastry House Synastry: In house Synastry both the couples connecting of houses are analysed. The Synastry of the Asc is most Important followed by the 7th the 5th house also seen for good progeny. The marriage houses 1 2 4 7 8 12 are checked for mutual harmony Good House Synastry: Quadrants and Trines must meet quadrants and Trines. 2 and 11 are resourceful and gainful. Eg.,Asc of couple must be the 1 5 9 or 2 4 7 10 11 of the other couple Samasaptaha or 7/7 relationship is the best Trinal synastry will be between mutual Friends 1/1 1/5 1/9 Quadrant Synastry is also harmonious if the Lord are friendly I/4 1/7 1/10 EX.,Aries Asc and Cancer Asc Synastry : Mars gets debilitated in Can this is a weak synastry Tau Asc and Leo Asc Synastry: Ven is inimical in Leo this is a challenging Synastry So, check both the lord’s friendship Same way check the 7th and other houses how they blend in to each other’s house design. Bad House Synastry: Houses Synastry with 6 8 12 houses is Challenging and difficult. E.g., Asc of one partner connecting with the 6 8 12 house of the other partner it is tough difficult challenging Synastry Asc Connection: 1/6 1/8 1/12 is bad (between couples) 7th Connection :7/6 7/8 7/12 is bad (between couples) House and Planet Synastry: Good Synastry (House VS Planet): Asc (2nd 4th 5th 7th 12th ) over Quadrant Trinal lords and Benefics who are not dusthana lords is highly desirable Eg., Aries Asc Guy and Sag Asc Girl if the guys Asc meets the girls Sun Moon Jup Ven it is highly favourable If the Asc meets the malefic trinal or 7th lord it is agreeable Bad Synastry (House VS Planets) Couples Asc 2nd 4th 5th 7th 12th houses overlapping over the couples Malefics is challenging especially Rahu Ketu Mars. Sun and Sat are also cautiously approached. If it is more than two planet connects it is difficult Eg Asc etc over Couples Sat Rahu or Mars Ketu or Sun Sat is not recommended Asc etc over couples 6 8 12 and Badhaka lords is also challenging Planetary Synastry: Moon Vs Moon: Moon is the most important in the planetary Synastry. To understand the mutual compatibility this is a very Important Principle. Samasaptaha 1/7 is the best Trines are Good 3 /11 is ok Quadrant relationship is good if both the lords are friendly 6 8 12 Moons is the worst Check the same rule to the Asc of the partner the effect is the same. After checking the Moon to Moon relationship check Moons relationship with the rest of the planets and houses, Moon to Ven Synastry is excellent for mutual love attraction and Romance Moon to Mer Synastry is good for good communication and understanding Moon to Jup Synastry is good for mutual respect and spiritual values Moon to Sun Synastry can cause Ego issues Moon to Sat Synastry can cause lack of attraction Moon to Mars Synastry can be sensitive and volatile if it’s a trinal lordship connect it is agreeable Moon to Rahu this is challenging synastry Moon to Ketu this is a difficult synastry The Synastry is strong if it is a conjunction. Trinal and Quadrant synastry is 50 percent effective It is very important to check the matching with the Moons Synastry with the 9 planet’s and Asc . The Synastry based on conjunction is the best effective synastry. The trinal and quadrant also shows the effect of each other’s planets on each other E.g., Couples Moon having benefics in Conjunction Quadrants trines strengthen the relationship brings mutual love binding and stability. Malefics in conjunction and mutual quadrants is undesirable it weakens the bond Eg Moon in Sagittarius. If the partner has malefic in Sagi esp Rahu Ketu Sat it is not auspicious. Malefics in quadrants have a secondary effect. After Moon rest of the planets Synastry are checked based on the same principles. Ven Synastry: Ven to other houses and planets is a vey important synastry for conjugal happiness , love and harmony between the couples Ven to Moon, Ven to Mars is the best desirable synastry Ven to Mer, Ven to Jup is also agreeable Ven to malefics especially in conjunction is undesirable especially to Rahu Ketu and Sun. The Asc Lord and 7th Lords Synastry in also seen it must not connect with malefics or 6 8 12 lords or houses Jupiters Synastry: Jup is seen for progeny spirituality culture tradition ethical and family values. The Jupiter in Synastry wants to help out, cheer up, and encourage the other person. Jupiter gets the most pleasure when he sees his loved one grow. A good Jup Synastry is necessary for a strong binding stability and for the Longevity of the marriage. Mars Synastry: Mars, in relationship astrology, is the planet of sexual expression and desire. It shows us our animal instincts. While Venus rules romantic attraction, Mars indicates a more animal need for sex and assertion. The physical chemistry is seen with Mars Synastry it equal to the Yoni porutham Mars Moon: Sensitive Volatile combination Mars Mer: Stimulating conversations, Arguments. Mars Ven: Strong physical attraction Mars Jup: Balancing Chemistry Mars Sun: Dynamic Chemistry Mars Sat: Tensions, frustrations, and blockages can feel insurmountable Sun Synastry: This is about both your self Idenity . The Egos ethos culture sublimation and mutual respect Mercury Synastry :The mutual communication quotient.The intellectual critical humour between the couples is seen. Saturn Synastry: The Karmic implications , the sense of commitment , duty and responsibility are seen Rahu Synastry: This is an unholy connection. The planets loose they purity and sanctity This is also a hint on karmic settlement or Karmic due. Ketu Synastry: This causes blocks in expression and experiance. A pscyhological internal conflict will be brewing. The synastry will force the other partner to involve in spirituality Dangerous Synastry : Moon Rahu Moon Ketu Sun Rahu Sun Ketu Mars Sat Sat Sun etc etc These are volatile Synastry. Luminaries over the serpents are Karmic connections Synastry Effect Conjunction: Planets forming a Synastry in conjunction is very strong Trinal: The Trinal Synastry is 50 percent in effect Quadrant: The Quadrant Synastry is 50 percent in effect The matching can be tedious when the trinal Quadrant etc synastry are seen. So, for practicality just check the Mutual Conjunction Synastry Synastry other Uses: Synastry is just not used for Marriage alone. The relationship with any person can be analysed with Synastry. Children: take Asc 5th and Jup Synastry Mother: Asc Moon and 4th house Synastry Father: Asc Moon Sun and 9th house Synastry Friends: Asc Moon 11th house (Ven Jup) Professional: Asc Moon Sun 10TH house Check Asc and Moon with the Karakas and House for other relationship Synastry

How we can change dissatisfaction of life partner in satisfaction through astrology?

🕉 Veda teaches us a way of life in harmony with nature and energy, jyotish is eyes of Vedas 🌠We can use jyotish to live a perfect way of life, by understanding nature and flow of energy like a musical tune and dance along with its rhythm ⚓Jyotish have very subtle usage in every aspect to Day to Day life 💥Lagna of Navamsa is determined from degree of Uday Lagna 💎Navamsa is deep subconscious feeling of our psycological attitude towards life our likes and dislikes etc because it's created from degree of lagna ♟️Moon stand for our habits and in any varga chart show our state of mind, our psycology regarding signification of that varga 👉Navamsa is chart of marriage, destiny etc 🌍We usually get cases of mutual dissatisfaction amongst couple and we see chart and tell them when is good or bad phase, is there seperation etc but rarely we see jyotish giving marital tips to make marraige work, if destiny say there could be seperation then there could be one but till the time they are together we can always do things and be happy with partner in time being Tip - 1. Check moon sign in Navamsa chart 2. Note down the sign and house of moon in Navamsa 3. Any planet in conjunction or aspect to moon then it's effects are and must be added to arrive at conclusions 🛑that's the things we like most, if any one gift us things signified by moon sign, house and planet placed over there we must feel highest level of mental happiness Some time ago I was reading chart of a USA based couple, they loves each other but lot of dissatisfaction too, lady had moon in pisces sign 12th house of Navamsa and male had Virgo in 9th house I told man that if there is a fight and he gift shoes or foot wear to his wife then she will become very happy and if there is very big fight then take her for oversea travel togather, this will make her very very happy and will help end fight, he was shocked because his wife loved branded food wears and crazy about travelling to other countries 🌪I didn't do any magic it was simple basic jyotish shastras 🌞Small small things can help change dynamic in relationships 👉1. If partner moon in 1st or Aries - physical body stuffs, caps, pay yoga or gym class bills etc 👉2. If moon in 2nd or Taurus - take her out for romantic dinner, gift necklace beauty products 👉3. Moon in 3rd or Gemini - gift her communication devices, get togather with neighbors, pay Her mobile bill, take short travels etc 👉4. moon in Cancer or 4th - gift her decorative item for home, homely products, do gardening with her, gift her plants etc 👉5. Moon in 5th or Leo = Take her to movies or sport competition, praise her without reasons, entertainment etc togather 👉6. Moon in 6th or Virgo = help her with kitchen works, do cleaning for her etc gift her books, gift her free medical checkup 👉7. Moon in 7th or libra = Dance with her, do anything where both of you are involved togather, Libra love expensive lifestyle gifts 👉8. Moon in 8th or Scorpio = Gift her mystery and occult books, give her surprises, keep her on edge but sweetly 👉9. Moon in 9th or Sagittarius = Take her for trekking, pilgrimage, archelogical place etc give her religious or philosophical books 👉10. Moon in 10th or Capricorn = Give her Respect before other, praise her as hard worker, cools pants works for caps 👉11. Moon in 11th or Aquarius = socialise with partner, take her to marraige or gatherings etc hang with her friends 👉12. Moon in pisces or 12th = gift shoes or footwear, long travel, spend time in isolation with her, ask for her fantasy etc and help them realise their dreams 🌠 Apply own logic as per house and sign and use it for your own good, be creative and plz don't bombard comment with your own placements